Stop Carrying Regret Like a Ball and Chain

Either we run free to God with open arms, dropping any baggage from the past. Or, we drag along regret like a ball and chain.

Regret. Such a small word that packs a big punch. Often, it’s a supersized punch straight to the gut. And it leaves us gasping for air and reeling in pain deep in our soul.

Why? Because we feel like we are carrying the weight of a ball and chain.

Regret is displayed in these ways: sorrow/sadness, repentance, disappointment or remorse for a missed opportunity. (Google)

In order to unpack some of these specifics about regret, let’s look at examples and Scriptures.

Regret in Sorrow Like a Ball and Chain

We regret in sorrow or sadness. Perhpas a close relationship ended and we regret why it happened.

Or, a loved one dies when our relationship’s still strained or severed. This regret is sometimes unbearable. I’ve seen this fleshed out at funerals: sons and daughters or fathers and mothers or brothers and sisters skip the services because of a hurt or grievance. 

Also, regret over a broken relationship that robs us of precious time with someone we love. Years go by and we lose time that we never recover. How sad when this hits close to home. God never intended this kind of sorrow for unreconcilation.

Let’s pray to stay humble and attempt to live at peace in all relationships. Then, regret is not our companion now or when it’s too late.

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Romans 12:18 (NIV)

Repentance and Regret

Mistakes and sin keep us chained to regret. 

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