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3 Reasons God’s Strong in Our Weakness

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“How strong are you?”

I used to ask my children this when they were young. Both my son and daughter answered by striking a pose to show their biceps.

But on my own journey from child to adult, I learned culture’s definition of what makes a person strong. 

And I learned how weakness comes in many shapes and sizes. 

Like how weight lifting proves my arms lack physical strength. Or, how low self-esteem, anxiety or discouragement labels me a weak soul. 

Also, how failure to excel in a class, understand a concept at work, or carry strong opinions defines me as weak-minded.

Culture teaches us to stay strong and overcome weakness because it just isn’t pretty.

Yet, in my heavenly Father’s Kingdom weakness takes on a whole new meaning.

“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For when I am weak, then I am strong. (2 Corinthians 12:910b, emphasis added)

Paul’s visions and thorn in the flesh described in this chapter kept him from boasting in himself. He had endured many hardships and persecutions. Still, he discovered his strength was found in his weakness.

While people often look down on weakness, God’s children look up to Him to make us strong.

What Culture Says…What God Says

Culture tells us to strive for independence. God says, Depend on Me.

Culture calls people weak who struggle to juggle all the things in life. God says, You don’t have to struggle to juggle anything. In fact, if you are doing the juggling act, you aren’t resting in Me. 

Culture calls us weak unless we compete in the workplace and go for the jugular. God says, Find your identity in Me. Seek community, not competition.

Culture says we are weak if we need help and we can’t pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps. God says, Look to the hills, where does your help come from? From Me the God of heaven and earth. (see Psalm 121:1)

Culture says we are weak if we need help and we can’t pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps. God says, "Look to the hills, where does your help come from? From Me the God of heaven and earth." (See Psalm 121:1) #strong Share on X
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So God’s calling all perfectionists, all type-A personalities, all pull-yourself-up-by-your-bootstraps people and every get-it-done man, woman, boy and girl. 

And He’s calling all children of God who keep trying and striving to obtain the things of God on our own or living the Christian life in our own strength. He wants us to know…

3 Reasons God’s Strong in Our Weakness

(1) Weakness points to our need for a higher power. 

If we are always strong, we wouldn’t need God. If we are never weak, never fall short, never fail, or always have it together, we wouldn’t need our heavenly Father who is all powerful or a Savior who’s strength is made perfect in our weakness.

(2) Weakness reminds us that we have limits. 

Humans are limited. The heavenly Father is limitless. (Read Billy Graham’s devotion on our limitless God.)

Maybe we think we have to be the strong one and keep everyone on track. Yet, who’s there for us, who’s the strong one for us?

The heavenly Father.

Or, we grow tired and weak from feeling like we never measure up, feeling like we are never enough. Here’s the thing: in our heavenly Father we are already enough, we already have His strength.

(3) Weakness reveals our insufficiency. 

Many times we take pride in thinking we are self-sufficient in our job, in life, and so on. Yet, we are never sufficient on our own. Not only do we need other people, but also God’s “grace is sufficient” for us. Then we face each day with renewed strength.

Our New Definition of Strong 

Let’s do this exercise to further grasp our new definition of strong.

Insert your name in the blank and read it out loud.

The Lord’s grace is sufficient for _________, for His power is made perfect in my weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 

For when I am weak, then I am strong. 

(Based on 2 Corinthians 12:9,10b)

Insert your name, The Lord’s grace is sufficient for _________, for His power is made perfect in my weakness. For when I am weak, then I am strong. (see 2 Cor. 12:9-10) #strong Share on X

In what ways can you trust God’s strength over your weakness?

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I can only be strong and be my best when I’m relying on the Father for everything I need to live life fully and rejoice in His strength. If, indeed, we could “do it all,” what need would we have for a Savior? Thankfully, we cannot depend on our own strength, but we can always count on God’s.
Blessings, Karen!

Karen says:

True, Martha. While people often look down on weakness, God’s children look up to Him to make us strong. So thankful when we are weak, He is strong!

Jessica Brodie says:

Yes! I’ve learned that I’m only strong when I’m operating in tandem with God—for it is GOD who is strong, never me. On my own I am nothing.

Karen says:

Jessica, God is the strong one. We need reminding! Thankful our help comes from the Maker of heaven and earth!

Amen. In my weakness, He is my strength. He holds me in His loving arms. What comfort to know He loves me so much!

Karen says:

Yes, Melissa! God’s grace is sufficient!

Definitely needed this reminder today!

Karen says:

The Lord’s grace is sufficient for Ave, for His power is made perfect in her weakness. Therefore she will boast all the more gladly of her weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon her.

For when she is weak, then she is strong.

(Based on 2 Corinthians 12:9,10b)

Karen, as I read this post, I kept thinking about a conversation I had with one of our boys recently. We strive to appear strong, capable, self-sufficient because this is what the world values, gives worth to. If they are weak in their peers’ eyes, they feel worthless. It’s such a hard mindset to live with.

As I’ve aged, I’ve come to see the beauty in weakness. Yeah, I don’t always view it that way, but when I remember I don’t have to be the strong one because I am loved by a strong Father, there’s peace in that. This is such a great post.

Karen says:

Thank you, Jeanne. And like how you said, “…when I remember I don’t have to be the strong one because I am loved by a strong Father, there’s peace in that.” It does bring peace. And seeing the beauty in weakness does not come easy and may not only come with age, but also as we grow in Christ. Of course, learning the hard way how we are week isn’t pleasant, but a good teacher. 🙂

Amen! Thank you so much for the reminder today. When I am weak, He is strong!

Karen says:

Stephanie, I’m learning to stop striving in my own power on the Christian journey. He’s our strength!

This beauty of life in Christ is one of God’s greatest blessings! In our weakness, we are strong. When our sides are all leaning, our God supports us. What others see as a flaw or hindrance toward strength are the circumstances and features and traumatic realities that drive us into Christ’s arms and away from self reliance and independence. Those qualities are so prized by Americans, and yet, holding on tight to our own abilities and our independent acts place us far from God and without the assistance we dearly need. I’m so grateful that when I am weak, I am actually strong, because I can lean as hard as is needed upon the God of the universe, Who can hold me up. And, lean, I must!

Karen says:

Melinda, you beautifully expressed this tug-of-war between culture and God. What’s valued on this earth is in stark contrast to God’s Kingdom. Independence and being strong in “self” are polar opposites for the Christian and Christianity’s way of life. May we learn to “lean” and let our weakness drive us to Christ.

My answer to anyone’s question of this nature is the same; “Enough.” I always refer them to my favorite life verse, Philippians 4:13. I have learned that I have never been, and can never be, strong enough to survive in this foreign world alone. Yet, in Christ, I can do all things. I do this through the power of the Creator of this world.

Karen says:

Exactly, J.D. Christ is enough. In Christ, we are enough…already. Christ = power. Weakness = strength.

Yvonne Morgan says:

I loved your thoughts on the idea of Being strong in our weaknesses. Amen to this. I too see beauty in my weakness as I watch God work. Thanks

Karen says:

If we are always strong, we wouldn’t need God. If we are never weak, never fall short, never fail, or always have it together, we wouldn’t need our heavenly Father who is all powerful or a Savior who’s strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Beckie says:

Your points are spot-on, Karen!
My strength is found in a Jesus Christ!

Karen says:

The Lord’s grace is sufficient for Beckie, for His power is made perfect in her weakness. Therefore she will boast all the more gladly of her weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon her.

For when she is weak, then she is strong.

(Based on 2 Corinthians 12:9,10b)

mariel says:

yes, amen! so very grateful He IS strong in my weakness, He sure knows I have many!

Karen says:

We all do, Mariel. But when we are weak, He is strong!

Karen, this is one of those articles I need to save and read over and over. I’m definitely the perfectionist and type A personality. At the first church I worked, my nickname was “Make it happen, Marcie.” I use to take pride in that title until trying to meet its demands burned me out and made me proud. The part of this post that stands out to me is, “Culture calls people weak who struggle to juggle all the things in life. God says, You don’t have to struggle to juggle anything. In fact, if you are doing the juggling act, you aren’t resting in Me.” I have learned that juggling all things is to be less of the one thing God wants me to be. Thank you for this wonderful reminder that in God we are strong, and the purposes of our weakness are to depend on him!

Karen says:

Marcie, I smiled at this, At the first church I worked, my nickname was “Make it happen, Marcie.” One place I worked, a company owner would say of me, “You’re a machine!” Yet, you’re right, we can get burned out and prideful.

Being a perfectionist and Type A personality, I used to struggle to juggle all the things…all the time. I’m learning the Lord never meant for life to be lived that way. Those are man-made demands.

When Marcie is weak, God is strong!

Yes, yes and yes! The pull of the culture to “be strong, independent, self-sufficient” is a big one. So, I need this message again and again. May we allow our weaknesses to let us lean harder into our Abba Father who is our God, Provider and Way Maker. He is the Way, we need only follow. May we keep our eyes on Jesus and walk in it. So simple! If we could only get ourselves out of the way! Jesus, take the wheel and take my sticky hands off of it!

Karen says:

“If we could only get ourselves out of the way!” Melissa, that’s a big problem many of us have. We are in the way of God’s work and we jeopardize His power and strength He has waiting for us by taking the wheel!

“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:9, 10b)

This is my favorite part-
we grow tired and weak from feeling like we never measure up, feeling like we are never enough. Here’s the thing: in our heavenly Father we are already enough

As a recovering perfectionist, I cling to this, and I cling to Him.

Thank you for this beautiful post

Karen says:

Valerie, I mostly write about what I relate to. I’m a recovering perfectionist too. So I’m trying to learn in the Lord, I am already enough.

When we are weak, He is strong!

Kristi Ann says:

Hallelujah and Amen Karen!!

Karen says:

Kristi Ann, When we are weak, He is strong! God bless!

You are speaking the words I needed to remember today!

Karen says:

Wonderful, Rebecca. When we are weak, He is strong!

Karen,
I don’t know a soul who couldn’t benefit from reading this post…and then reading it over again! Sadly, I had to learn the hard way that “self-sufficient” wasn’t my middle name. It was touted as a virtue when I was young. If we could be strong in our own strength, then that would basically make Jesus irrelevant. When we can get to the place in which we embrace our weakness and utterly rely and depend upon the Lord, then we’re beginning to catch on. Thank you for a timely reminder that I don’t have to keep pulling myself up by my bootstraps…it just doesn’t work, nor do we need for it to. Wonderful post!
Blessings,
Bev xx

Karen says:

Bev, I like how you said, “If we could be strong in our own strength, then that would basically make Jesus irrelevant.” That’s good and true. We know culture today encourages us to be strong on our own, yet, great point that it is often looked at in families as a good character trait. So then and now, we are surrounded by this perspective. It takes intentionality as a believer to admit our weaknesses and turn to the Lord for His strength. Thanks for adding to the conversation.

Mary Geisen says:

You referenced one of my favorite verses: 2 Cor. 12:9-10. I can’t get enough of hearing that God’s power is made perfect in my weakness. If I listen to what the world says about me I will forget that God chose me and calls me enough, worthy, and loved.

Karen says:

So true, Mary. When it comes to what the world says versus God’s Word, I’m going with Him every time!

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