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How to Laugh and Play More as a Family

How to Laugh and Play More as a Family, photo by Pixabay.com

In our hurry-up culture, our fill-every-spot-on-the-calendar life, and our present social media world, we sometimes lose sight of what matters most. And we forget in all the planning and going and doing to spend quality and fun time with our family…those who mean the most to our hearts. 

Because we all need to laugh more, play more, and create more.

But you may wonder how to plan enjoyment for family members including adults and kids of various ages.

Yet, most of us are big kids at heart anyway. 

Even if we’ve been adult-ing all day or all week, what better way to bring out the child in us than by a little creative recreation. 

And sometimes add in extended family like grandkids/grandparents or cousins and their parents.

So here’s a few ideas with the acrostic “family fun.” I hope these activities inspire the laughing and playing often missing from our lives.

In our hurry-up culture, our fill-every-spot-on-the-calendar life, and our present social media world, we sometimes lose sight of what and who matters most. #family Share on X

Family Playing and Laughing

Fly a kite. While on our beach trip one year, we enjoyed watching a dad and his kids flying a kite near the ocean’s edge. I’m willing to bet it was one of the highlights to their trip. With so many electronic devices in the hands of kids these days, why not show them a different activity by putting a kite in their hands. And take advantage of windy days in our yard or nearby park.

Assemble something as a team. Maybe a puzzle, a model car, rocket ship, new play set, swing, tent or teepee, a kite, and so on. Kids love to help and they’re invested when they get to try out the item after putting it together. What’s more rewarding and fun at the same time.

Make cookies or cupcakes and decorate. Messy hands and a messy kitchen are the recipe for both yummy and hooray. Whether small kids or teens, icing or sprinkles, admiring or tasting, baking simply produces enjoyment. A glass of cold milk never hurts either. 

Invite extended family members to a family-friendly movie night or talent show. Set up the room like a theater complete with popcorn or other snacks. This activity is sure to generate memories that last. When my twin sister and I were growing up, we put on shows in front of the sofa for our parents, step-parents, and other family members. I remember many of the details because the scenes lodged in my mind as if we had our own home movie.

How to Laugh and Play More as a Family, photo by Pixabay.com

Listen to songs and lip sync. Use play microphones or pretend with hairbrushes or serving spoons. Nothing like oldies and funny tunes to fill our home with laughter—music to our ears. Some of my favorite movie scenes are when a mom, dad, or kids lip sync an upbeat song. Like Sandra Bullock’s character in, Hope Floats, lip syncs to cheer up her daughter.

Yard games at our house or neighborhood gathering. Again, when my sisters and I were little, we played in our yard and at our friends homes. And summer season means slip-and-slides, water balloon wars, and who can catch the most lighting bugs in a jar at dusk. Every season lends itself to varied games to keep boredom at bay.

In all our planning and going and doing in life, we often fail to spend quality and fun time with our family…those who mean the most to our hearts. #familyfun Share on X

Family and Fun

Fish together. I remember the first time I went fishing with my dad. He’d been out of my life for a few years. When he reappeared, he took me on adventures like fishing. I always learned a lot about the activity, about myself, and about the people with me. But if the real deal is not an option, young kids love battery-operated fishing games. Or, play the card game Go Fish. 

Under the stars. Go camping or plan to sleep under the stars in our backyard. We created many family memories for our son and daughter by camping. We visited state parks and campgrounds in several different states. But kids also enjoy a campout on their own turf. So pitch a tent in the yard and create a camping atmosphere at home.

Navigate a scavenger hunt, neighborhood walk, or hiking trail. And family scavenger hunts are easily set up using items found around our home. Walks or hikes promote conversation among our family members.

We all need to laugh more, play more, and create more. What better way than together as a family. #familyfun Share on X

Family Quality Time

“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them!” (Psalm 127:3-5a, ESV).

Which ideas from “family fun” do you plan to incorporate or what would you add?

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May 30, 2019 at 8:30 am | Uncategorized


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These are some awesome tips. Scavenger hunts are my kids favorite. Will try some of these to keep them occupied and connected this summer. Thank you. Xo

Karen says:

Scavenger huts are lots of fun. And glad this post gave you some ideas for connection this summer! Awesome! Thanks, Eva!

Laughter helps me. My family is always finding something to laugh about. Our family motto is “It’s Always A Story With The Henderson’s”. 🙂

Karen says:

Melissa, I’ve read some of the Henderson’s stories on your blog and they’re always a hoot! 🙂 We all need laughter, don’t we?! Thanks for stopping by!

Chip Mattis says:

These are fantastic ideas, Karen. Thanks for sharing. For us, we like family movie nights and baking competitions. We also like to play that arm game where someone stands behind you and sticks their arms through mine and pretends to be your arms.
I think the point is that we get busy with less important things, but if we’re deliberate, we can make some really treasured memories with our families.

Karen says:

Hey Chip, movie nights and bake-offs sound like loads of family fun. And we use to play the arm game you described at youth group. I never thought about doing it at home. That’s a really laughable thing, too. Thanks for sharing your ideas.

Karen, I LOVE these ideas. And just in time for summer. It’s also a great reminder that we don’t need anything fancy to laugh and have fun with the family.
Blessings, my friend.

Karen says:

Beckie, I love your point that it doesn’t require “fancy”…good thing because my crew, we don’t get fancy very often. And plain, good ole fun doesn’t have to cost a pretty penny either. Thanks for commenting.

Sounds like fun. I’ll be over soon! This is a refreshing post. Spending time with my boys and their girlfriends is one of my favorite things to do these days. And occasionally we get to all go to Lake Tahoe together. So, in honor of Tahoe, here are some things we do in our family (or at least some of us).

T – Talk like we’re British, or like a pirate, or like certain celebrities
A – Act and sing in musicals
H – Hike to waterfalls and overlooks
O – Open gifts while we celebrate a White Christmas in Tahoe
E – Eat somewhere fun (oh, but this gets costly)

Karen says:

Ha ha, Stephen. Love your Tahoe acrostic. Great!

What a great need for families today! Some of these activities require a great deal of time and some require only a small bit of time.

The key is that we have to live intentionally. We need to plan to do these things.

Thanks and God bless!

Karen says:

Nancy, I’ve often thought how just like other areas of life are intentional…marriage, work, writing, passions…this is as well. Spending time with our family and intentionally setting aside the time to do it.

What wonderful ideas! I don’t have kids yet, but it’s important to remember these tips with my husband too – that we can’t become too caught up in the daily grind that we forget to have some fun!

Karen says:

Emily, it is important for a couple, too. Just yesterday after this post published, my husband and I drove to a state park about an hour away. It was so relaxing to eat by the river and sit and watch the water and admire the landscape and talk. We had visitors right beside us in the grass: ducks, chickens, a rooster and even a turkey.

Mandy Farmer says:

Loved this.

I’m doing a series of link ups about Leaving a Legacy this summer. Hope you will be able to share some links along the way.

Karen says:

Thanks, Mandy. I’ll be sure to check it out. Sounds awesome!

Debra Jean says:

What a great list of ideas! Our children are grown and young, no grandchildren yet so we play a lot of games together. We laugh and enjoy the company. It’s a great blessing.

Karen says:

I love that you play games with all ages of kids, Debra. It’s really not that hard to incorporate recreation that includes all ages, even us adults into fun and laughter.

Jessica Brodie says:

Thanks for these, Karen! You are right: FUN as a family is so important. It fosters love and connection. We will remember fun and family times, not the tedium and silly necessities of life.

Karen says:

I agree, Jessica. On our death beds, we will never wish we spent more time working or regret not making more money or even want to clutch our earthly accolades. We will want to look back and hope we loved our family and spent quality time with them.

Great tips Karen. As I try to remind my children, it is about making memories together. Those memories are what help carry us too.

Karen says:

So true, Yvonne. My fondest memories growing up are times spent with my grandparents or certain family outings and vacations…the good times…the good memories that made me feel happy and special.

As always – beautiful thoughts and actionable steps spelled out. And all accompanied by beautiful photographs! Such a wise post, Karen! We grandmas are the reminders. We know how fast it all flies by, and then they’re gone. We know how those schedules can be like tyrants. We must remember, and we need to remind the young. Stop. Take a breath. Keep your family ahead of your other activities. You’ll never regret doing so.

Karen says:

Doesn’t time just fly by, Melinda?! It amazes me when I reflect on how it seems like yesterday our kids were little. I hope this post helps some young parents to realize not to let calendars and schedules dictate who their family is. Because time flies, the opportunities can be lost. Lord, help us to spend quality and fun time with our family…those who mean the most to our hearts.

These are great ideas, Karen! When our children were young we did many of them! I love how you made each one memorable using the acrostic and a story from your life. The one that stood out to me was “Make cookies or cupcakes and decorate. Messy hands and a messy kitchen are the recipe for both yummy and hooray. Whether small kids or teens, icing or sprinkles, admiring or tasting, baking simply produces enjoyment. A glass of cold milk never hurts either.”

I’m not so good at baking, but my kids loved it! My mom and uncle loved baking and regularly they included my children in it. Grown now, but they remember and cherish those moments with their Grammy and Rudy. And I loved watching them develop those familial bonds with extended family.

Great ideas to have fun! As a grandma, I can attest I love having fun with my granddaughter! It produces much needed laughter and rest in a different way. It’s good medicine for the soul and body!

Karen says:

Thank you, Marcie. My daughter loved helping me cook or bake something when she was little…sometimes even my son. There is just something about kids when they are allowed to get a little messy that sparks some fun! Now, my grandson loves to help in the kitchen and back in December he helped his mom bake and decorate my birthday cake.

What a wonderful reminder to pause and enjoy the beautiful blessing of family! We played a lot with our kids when they were young and had a blast doing so. My husband can be very silly, so he often started the fracas. We have enjoyed some of the activities you listed here, but not all! You have inspired me to plan some fun family times in the coming months. Thank you, Karen, for the many ways you allow your deep love for Jesus to bring light to this world! What an inspiration you are!

Karen says:

Hey Melissa, that’s great your husband can be very silly…that line made me smile. I think my husband and I are almost sillier and become more child-like with our grandkids than we were with our children. Either way, it’s all about creating moments that make us laugh and play more and the memories will last a lifetime!

VedaLucas says:

Now that my children are grown with children of their own, I’m rediscovering this truth with my grandchildren. Many good suggested!

Karen says:

Me too! No better way to stay invested in our kids lives, than by being invested in their children’s lives. Creating memories and doing some of the same activities. Thanks for commenting!

These tips are great! And perfect with summer on the doorstep! I can’t wait to incorporate them and choose fun with my kids and husband this summer!

Karen says:

Thanks, Rebecca. May we be inspired to find more laughing and playing that’s often missing from our family and lives.

These are all fantastic ideas, Karen. Yes, I agree, that it’s so important for a family to play together and simply take joy in the moment. Another reason I love spending time with my grands!
Just to let you know, too, the book arrived safe and sound. Can’t wait to read it!
Blessings!

Karen says:

Yay, glad you got the book, Martha! Appreciate your comment, it does bring such joyous moments with our family and grands when we are intentional with our time.

Rebecca Jones says:

I love puzzles, they come in all sizes for all ages, and there is a company called Bits and Pieces that sells good ones. Bubbles are another simple idea. Young children will like making purple peanut butter sandwiches, just mix the pb and j until it is purple. If you cut them diagonally, and back to back they look like butterflies and then there are banana boats, just put a banana in a hot dog bun, you can add pb or j to that. I made frozen chocolate bananas the other night. I did lots of childcare.

Karen says:

Awesome ideas, Rebecca! Yes, I forgot about bubbles…I love to play with bubbles. Love the purple PB & J sandwiches cut to look like butterflies! Thanks for sharing!

Elaine Gilbert says:

I love this post! The older I get the faster time goes. For my family I want quality time and you have given me some great ideas. One of my favorite things to do with the grandkids is take nature walks & hikes. I notice that our voices are lower, we tend to listen better, & the conversations can be amazing.
I’m so thankful for the ability to enjoy life and if the time comes that activities aren’t a possibility, I pray that God will instill in my crew that sometimes just holding hands is enough.
Love you and your heart my friend.

Karen says:

Hey Elaine, thank you sweet friend. I enjoyed your thoughts on nature walks and hikes with your grandkids, how voices are lower and listening is better. What a great way to initiate good conversations. And, yes, sometiems just holding hands is enough. 🙂 🙂

Julie Dibble says:

Good morning Karen,

I love the abundance of ideas here. It really is timely. Our boys have 4.5 days of school left. As much as I like to structure our days, I need to relax into summer … thank you again. I feel my creative juices stirring after reading your words. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. In Christ, Julie

Karen says:

“I need to relax into summer.” I like that, Julie. Glad this post encouraged you and your creative juices. And pray it inspires you to help your family laugh more, play more, and create more. Blessings!

Beth says:

You are so creative and practical here, Karen! I love these ideas and need to get my family fun “game on” as a new grandma! Lol! Thanks for these and I’ll be pinning and tweeting, my friend!

Karen says:

Thank you, Beth, for commenting and sharing. Congratulations on being a new grandma. I love being a Mimi. And when we get these new little ones in the family, the “game on” as you say begins again. Blessings!

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